Life is busy and life is GOOD!
When I write this blog, I keep the personal details about my son out of it and focus on things from my perspective. He doesn’t even know about this blog and I know he would find it all a bit icky! It’s not that it’s a big secret but I really don’t think he’d be very interested. One day I might show him this blog and I would hate for him to be embarrassed or feel that I’d revealed too much about him. So, I keep personal details vague which can make it difficult to write.
With this in mind, what can I tell you about why we are going through this positive and peaceful period?
My boy has Type 1 diabetes but he has and is so many other things at the moment and my heart is bursting with pride! I love it when his diabetes doesn’t follow me around like a cloud and is most definitely not the first thing I think of when I wake up in the morning! Long may this last!
So how is my boy doing?
He is going quite well at school. A bit of a cheeky chappy at times but I kinda like that, as it will be a character strength that serves him well going into the future. He was encouraged to apply for leadership positions for his senior year and is currently doing that. I don’t even care if he gets a role but his teachers saw something in him that demonstrated leadership. I am so grateful for that! He was blown away to hear this praise from a couple of amazing male teachers who are top role models for young boys. None of them really know the work my son puts in, the 121 decisions he has to make about his diabetes every day (I’ve never forgotten reading that statistic), and they certainly don’t see him as a victim. My son is very private about his diabetes so only some very special teachers have had a glimpse into this other part of his world.
He has a girlfriend and I’m trying not to explode with happiness. She is all I’d dreamt that his first serious girlfriend would be. They are clearly besotted with each other and they are having fun. They laugh, giggle and talk so much. She is wanting to learn about his diabetes and asks lots of questions. I’m trying not to have a total mum crush on her as, in the House of Testosterone, some female company is just lovely.
He has a part-time job which he likes. He has moved from one fast food place to another one just across the road. This one is so much better. His diabetes was spoken about at the interview and was totally not an issue. It’s actually a permanent part time job which means he has rights! He will even get sick pay and holiday leave. Can you believe it?
We have emerged from quite a tough year! The first few months of the year were very scary for me, as his mum. I could see he was struggling with this whole diabetes gig and just wanted it to be gone. We are so lucky to have an amazing CDE and paediatrician who helped us through this.
My own health was up and down recently. I’d been experiencing some stomach issues which are now on their way to being fixed. I hadn’t realised how awful I’d been feeling until I started to feel better. Currently I’m being quite selfish and can often be found bingingon a Netflix series or curled up with a book. I’m focusing on my health and currently thinking about fermenting vegetables and making bone broth to help my stomach heal. Whilst this does not fill me with joy, to balance it up, I’m enjoying coming up with new toppings for the pizzas which go in our newly installed pizza oven.
So there you have it! I’m quietly celebrating this calm after the storm.